Reasons to feel sad

[battlejellyfish]

^ I don't know specifically about CZ or SK habits so I can only tell my experiences. A thing like that "use to be" kind of disrespectful to the dead and his/her family. Just weird if someone holding up a phone shows up near the coffin. I get what you mean because it would have been much safer obviously but I feel like religious traditions and its impact on people leaves you with hands tied. So even the eldest people come there to pay their respects which is even more dangerous in a pandemic like this.

My condolences as well ceero.

[Emre]

My best friends girlfriend (and also my good friend) commited suicide yesterday :/ and here I am, stuck in a different country, unable to travel back home to support him and go to her funeral. Seriously, go fuck yourself already corona.

Dude. I don't know what to say, as I'm not really in a position to help. But all the best in these shitty times man.

[DjVero]

^ I don't know specifically about CZ or SK habits so I can only tell my experiences. A thing like that "use to be" kind of disrespectful to the dead and his/her family. Just weird if someone holding up a phone shows up near the coffin. I get what you mean because it would have been much safer obviously but I feel like religious traditions and its impact on people leaves you with hands tied. So even the eldest people come there to pay their respects which is even more dangerous in a pandemic like this.

My condolences as well ceero.

Yea, that's why I asked. I think here it would be a no-go as well, but times like these ask for different measures.

[lilfrenchidiot]

France pisses me off these days. This country is nearly USA-tier in bullshitness.

[lilfrenchidiot]

Can someone tell me that I can do my funny sounds in peace ? That not everyone are evil beings who enjoy to ruin and damage others, that there are actually good people too, and so that I am wrong when I write "this group = crap and whatever" ... "stfu shitles, do your tunes" ...

Btw do you think it's possible/feasible to do a lot of funny wind turbines by recycling stuffs that are impossible to recycle ? Instead of hills full of plastics, e-waste etc... it turns into materials to do funny wind turbines. Funny because obviously these wind turbines may look different.

I think you should seek professional help instead of asking on a Hardstyle forum, you seem to have some kind of really severe OCD/paranoia (I got OCD myself and I know it's terrible)

[The Blaster]

Sometimes this topic appears a bit like a counselling topic because there is so much about relationships.

But, I did want to write this because it will lessen the burden for it to be 'out there' and off my chest.

Last month I was ghosted by a girl that I liked. It wasn't an initial attraction but we had a lot in common, I got all the signals that she liked me, conversation flowed, went to her place, it was all going well.

I can remember her saying that she was dealing with a friend on Whatsapp who was just ghosted by a guy, saying how terrible that was. But she did the same thing to me. When I was over at her place, I washed her dishes, paid for the previous dinner, was respectful and so on.

It amazes me how this is such a game to women. And, sure, it is. It's important to be picky in a partner, sure. I can even follow the reasoning that if one tiny, minuscule thing 'feels' 'off', you would want to be cautious. But to not have an ounce of respect for the person that you talked to day-in day-out for 2 weeks.

I just keep thinking, what about the people who are not as mentally all together. Last night I watched an 'apres-love island' interview of one former contestant talking about how she wished she had answered the message of another before he took his own life. fucking crocodile tears. it's all a fucking game. even if someone dies, it's just 'me, me, me'

some sick society we live in.

[battlejellyfish]

Last night I watched an 'apres-love island' interview of one former contestant talking about how she wished she had answered the message of another before he took his own life. fucking crocodile tears. it's all a fucking game. even if someone dies, it's just 'me, me, me'

Games like these are made up most of the time because it's in the creators' best interest to do something dramatic and what not to be sellable which guys/girls in the show also agreeing with probably. I wouldn't say that case you've said is definitely false but if even it is, used for profit.

Other than that, don't really know what to say. It sucks obviously. Would have been easier to know where it actually failed or start to have some way to go if you tell more about her which I can't force to you do so... I'm just going to say it's hard to tell whether she was actually lying to you, you misunderstood her signs, didn't manage to know her enough or else. Two weeks of constant talking sounds a lot which might mean you have a lot in common but also that you love to talk about all that 2-3 things which keeps coming back without noticing you're slowly getting repetitive because you like each other's company. The range is pretty wide. Don't want to blame you on that because it's not that easy to think in such situations when the feels kick in.

Maybe next time you'll have much more luck. I'm sorry if I sound senseless but there's nothing really much to do about it I've already let thinking about such things too much go a while ago. Trying to be cautious, paying attention why more how people act and why. Although my brain start to "hurt" because I'm quite dumb

unbelievable how my wording still fucking sucks

[The Blaster]

Thanks guys!

Already helps to know it's out there, at least I told somebody lol

I could say a lot more, but might not be thoughtful and properly considered. there is a lot there to ruminate on in your responses so will take the positives and move forward

[SKRWD]

https://www.dittomusic.com/blog/how-muc ... -musicians

I'm in a situation where I have no choice but to quit trying to do music. So first I can't do manga because whenever I draw/write an unhealthy character it reminds me of whoever did bad things to me, I'm not doing to do something that makes me feel bad. Then now I'm in a situation where I'm forced to quit doing music (again) because I can't start online events / music streaming because I have no resource to buy some required equipments & stuffs + I'm forced to lose time and money at other obstacles/traps too. Poor me eh. Meanwhile thousands of people die of hunger and more shit, I can't even try to help them anymore. Etc... what I should do ?

Tbh, take some time off and rest. Sounds like you're kind of burnt out.

[SKRWD]

Lost all of my data... All of my projects, my whole music library, pictures, videos and documents are gone. There's no chance to recover them unfortunately. I'm legit crying as this was music compiled from 2006 to today, pictures and videos from the last 10 years and projects I've begun with when I started music.