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Shadder
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Re: Reasons to feel sad

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nerz wrote:^ damn son, that's a pretty tough situation to be in. i also quite like my mate's girlfriend and i could easily see her as my girlfriend but i don't want to cause any trouble and i'm not even sure that the girl has feelings for me (maybe she does but it is better if she doesn't - if i look at it objectively).
Yeah man. It's better if she doesn't.
It's not the first time I've been in that situation but if she doesn't, you juste have to deal with it yourself. Wich is a pain, but in the end you just have to move on.

But when she does have feelings, it make it way more complicated. It's fucking harsh to know that it could work, but she has to make a choice, and it's not you.
I honestly regret that she didn't just send me away when I told her about my feelings for her.

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Well, it's October and the days in Sweden are starting to get fucking dark, rainy and cold. I love the winter when it's REALLY cold and white, but the road to get there is absolutely horrible. The anxiety is increasing until mid november once the snow is starting to show. Knowing that there is more than one month left with increasing anxiety, darker days, wind and rain is tough as hell. The northern part of the world is not only a positive thing.

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getting kicked out of my house with stress left & right, ANY other time would have been "ok" but whyyyy noooow :facepalm:
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Nepsaol wrote:Well, it's October and the days in Sweden are starting to get fucking dark, rainy and cold. I love the winter when it's REALLY cold and white, but the road to get there is absolutely horrible. The anxiety is increasing until mid november once the snow is starting to show. Knowing that there is more than one month left with increasing anxiety, darker days, wind and rain is tough as hell. The northern part of the world is not only a positive thing.
Well at least you get the snow, your mid-oct to mid-november is Denmarks mid-oct to mid-april....

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Totaled my car today. What a lovely day. Fortunately everyone is alright.
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ceero wrote:Totaled my car today. What a lovely day. Fortunately everyone is alright.
Shit dude did the same myself before it happens so long as nobody hurt keep the head up fuck it shit happens your still here

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Ireland suck at football

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Post by lilfrenchidiot »

last friday morning i came back home, hangover af, after a party. puked, i got a blackout and the things that happened are pretty embarassing, i broke the guy's sink, lost a contact lense, nearly lost a shoe, probably will lose a coat, came back home dirtier than a homeless. pics and vids went everywhere of course.

cried when i arrived home because i realised i'm a fucking piece of shit. my parents did not even scold me or anything;

gonna try to stop all alcohol. this shit is gonna fuck up my life.

i am depressed. i don't even know why i tell u that, perhaps it makes u feel better to talk to people, even if they are people you only see on a hard dance music forum.
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Bah, happens to everyone. Everyone got shitfaced a ton more than intended a few times in life. But i can sort of relate to your feelings. I, personally, am at a point in life when i am somewhat done with alcohol. I never was thaaaat much of a heavy drinker (well, not by Slovakia's standards and Slovakia is a nation of fucking alcoholics), but i'm still sick of it. I'm completely fine with a few beers OR a glass of good wine but i am totally done with doing shots and drinking till blackout like 90% of young people around here do. What i fucking hate about alcohol is the culture around it. Makes me sick how all social life everywhere around me would simply fucking die in a blink of an eye if booze just disappeared overnight. Makes me sick how 2/3 of romantic relationships wouldnt exist without alcohol. I'm sick of people who think that getting superdrunk is some sort of an achievement and brag about how much who got drunk and the only thing they can talk about is how we got drunk the last time and where and how are we going to get drunk the next time. Again, i'm no bishop praising against the devil's water or anything, i'm totally down with occasional drinking but i fucking hate how what can literally be considered as alcoholism has not just become socially acceptable among young people, but downright trendy.
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thing is, i had heavy drinking sessions before but this went too far. i live by my mom and i knew i was gonna disappoint her again with that. that made me break down.
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