Reasons to feel sad

[lilfrenchidiot]

someone tell me how to get a couple to split and get the gf plz

driving into depression because of this shit (not that my life hasn't been highs and lows in depression since 2015 but still)

Why would you do such a thing? Go for a single one

Or deal with things that keeps you busy, like developing yourself on the area of life you would like to set up in later. Makes no sense to stuck in such a state, because it consumes a lot of time without point and investing in something that is really important will be paid later. Those are just plain bad, because firstly, we don't ruin someone else's relationship and secondly, there's no guarantee of getting the expected result (well maybe it's just my thinking). It's pretty clear I think, don't let the girls be your highest priority.

(cliché I know, but it worked for me)

you're probably right you're always the most clever when it comes to that to me tbh

[battlejellyfish]

I, as a clever person... that contradiction tho

[Soundphase]

don't try to mess with peoples lives like that

[lilfrenchidiot]

ok sorry for that bullshit it ain't right, i just went crazy i think coz i hate my life

doesn't excuse stuff like that u are right guys, ty

[Soundphase]

It's ok to have a dark thought, forgive yourself for that. But think before you post on forum

[Emre]

ok sorry for that bullshit it ain't right, i just went crazy i think coz i hate my life

doesn't excuse stuff like that u are right guys, ty

There's nothing wrong with weird thoughts. They're called intrusive thoughts, and all humans have them, you'd be suprised. Actually even the most 'normal/basic' people have thoughts like killing someone, throwing in some windows just for fun, or kicking an elder in the face. The thing that makes them normal is that they're thoughts, and healthy people know it's not right to do it, and will continue their lives. Mentally ill/deranged/psychopaths whatever you call it miss that logic/protection instinct for example, so they will have a harder time to ignore those feelings, often resulting in making their thoughts reality. Basically, we 'normals' are all high functioning psychopaths who can think logically and choose not to do anything with thoughts.

DW too much man

[Bibifoc]

Dude, you can be mentally ill and control your thoughts and actions as much as "normal people".

[Emre]

Dude, you can be mentally ill and control your thoughts and actions as much as "normal people".

Please tell me where I said that is impossible.

so they will have a harder time to ignore those feelings

Edit: Btw, I didn't mean to say anything bad or offensive, my post basically says everyone has wrong feelings, wrong thoughts, but most healthy people can dismiss them. Of course there are enough cases mentally ill people can still control their feelings, or in reverse, people who are not mentally ill can not control them sometimes. But generally speaking the main thing that seperates mentally ill/OCD people from 'normal' people ('normal' because I think there is no 'normal' really as everyone has other opinions about normal) - they are worse at controlling it.

[Bibifoc]

No problem. If you're talking more globally about how mentally ill people have worse control or lucidity over absurd thoughts, emotions, inadapted/dangerous behaviours and actions I understand it. These thoughts not being necessarily* violent and directed towards others or innocent windows though.

*I changed the word "specifically", it makes more sense now.

[ceero]

someone tell me how to get a couple to split and get the gf plz

driving into depression because of this shit (not that my life hasn't been highs and lows in depression since 2015 but still)

A good advice for you, quit trying to ruin someone else's life because of your own issues. If that was my girl i'd find you and punch you in the nose as hard as i could with all seriousness. Go find a decent therapist, a good one can help you with your problems a lot, i can tell from my own experience.