Jesus Christ, Nikkita, you take it so fucking personally. To everyone, it's not disrespectful at all to ask how someone "went," it's called wanting to know the full details. Back when my coworker died earlier this year, the person who broke the news told us how it happened because his
friends and coworkers could at least have the knowledge of what happened to their
friend and coworkerCuriosity is a bad thing now?

He repeated multiple times that he only asked, not that he was happy for it. OP did say something, but is it so hard to ask without getting a "holier-than-thou" attitude from someone like you?
I understand why you guys would think it's an inappropriate question, but saying someone needs to "learn how to read" and "most people know how to mind their own business. So maybe you should do that." (There's no "minding your own business" on a topic we already know a good amount about, great logic there) like you're their mother and they're too dumb to know otherwise, that's just disrespectful and unprofessional.
I'd expect so much more from a professional in the scene

In my opinion your smartass remarks are more inappropriate in this topic than the question he asked. Grow up.